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My mother hates me?
sadesmom asked:
I have had a volitile relationship with my mother for about 14 yrs. When I was a teen, I put my mother through hell, more than just ‘normal’ teenager stuff. I struggled with a drug addiction for a few yrs. and have been clean since August of this year…I have an 8 yr. old daugter whom she has wanted since I gave birth. My mother has a drinking issue and has since my parents divorced 21 yrs. ago. She recently had me arrested stating that I held a knife to her and threatened her. Because I had a prior record, I went to jail for this charge that she falsified. She now has my daughter ( due to the Restraining Order she obtained due to the charge of A&B w/. a deadly weapon) and has made it clear that she will do whatever she can within her power to keep my daughter for good. She has told me several times that she has wished for me to be in jail, on the streets or dead rather than be around her.
I am having a really difficult time understanding the fact that my own mother could have this much **** for me based on nothing but lies that she has created in her own mind. Thankfully I have my dad, step mom and sisters on my side and they see what she has done to me and the lies that she has created. I will be going to Probate court to obtain my daughter back in my custody. ( I have custody, she has guardianship) and my family will be there to help me.
Can anyone help me understand this craziness or have a way for me to deal with this situation???
OUTTA SIGHT… I HAVE MY LIFE TOGETHER.. I AM IN LAW SCHOOL AND HAVE NEVER NOT BEEN A DAMN GOOD MOTHER TO MY DAUGHTER… ALL I DO I DO FOR HER,,, I GOT ADDICTED TO PAIN PILLS DUE TO AN ACCIDENT AND MY DR, PRESCRIBING ME 250 PILLS PER WEEK. I DECIDED IT WAS TIME FOR ME TO GET OFF THEM AND JUST DEAL WITH THE PAIN SO DON’T JUMP TO CONCLUSION
Zella Xie
I have had a volitile relationship with my mother for about 14 yrs. When I was a teen, I put my mother through hell, more than just ‘normal’ teenager stuff. I struggled with a drug addiction for a few yrs. and have been clean since August of this year…I have an 8 yr. old daugter whom she has wanted since I gave birth. My mother has a drinking issue and has since my parents divorced 21 yrs. ago. She recently had me arrested stating that I held a knife to her and threatened her. Because I had a prior record, I went to jail for this charge that she falsified. She now has my daughter ( due to the Restraining Order she obtained due to the charge of A&B w/. a deadly weapon) and has made it clear that she will do whatever she can within her power to keep my daughter for good. She has told me several times that she has wished for me to be in jail, on the streets or dead rather than be around her.
I am having a really difficult time understanding the fact that my own mother could have this much **** for me based on nothing but lies that she has created in her own mind. Thankfully I have my dad, step mom and sisters on my side and they see what she has done to me and the lies that she has created. I will be going to Probate court to obtain my daughter back in my custody. ( I have custody, she has guardianship) and my family will be there to help me.
Can anyone help me understand this craziness or have a way for me to deal with this situation???
OUTTA SIGHT… I HAVE MY LIFE TOGETHER.. I AM IN LAW SCHOOL AND HAVE NEVER NOT BEEN A DAMN GOOD MOTHER TO MY DAUGHTER… ALL I DO I DO FOR HER,,, I GOT ADDICTED TO PAIN PILLS DUE TO AN ACCIDENT AND MY DR, PRESCRIBING ME 250 PILLS PER WEEK. I DECIDED IT WAS TIME FOR ME TO GET OFF THEM AND JUST DEAL WITH THE PAIN SO DON’T JUMP TO CONCLUSION
Zella Xie
Can you ever be too obsessive about your Children’s well being?
Damn Right! asked:
I am involved in a custody battle for my 6 year old daughter. The Department Of Social Services was called on her mother because her mother hit her in the face and gave her a light black eye. Now there is a supported 51A, and instead if giving custody to me they are choosing to “work” with the mother. So now I am awaiting a probate court date – since DSS is not doing their job to protect my daughter. SO… Yesterday I was told by a DSS worker that I was obsesive in the way that I pursue things, and that if I call him excessivly he will not return my calls. This was my first meeting with him and he acts like he knows me. Is it bad I will go to any lenghts to protect my daughter and get her out of the negitive living situation she is in? I will do this to my last dying breath.
Max Boling
I am involved in a custody battle for my 6 year old daughter. The Department Of Social Services was called on her mother because her mother hit her in the face and gave her a light black eye. Now there is a supported 51A, and instead if giving custody to me they are choosing to “work” with the mother. So now I am awaiting a probate court date – since DSS is not doing their job to protect my daughter. SO… Yesterday I was told by a DSS worker that I was obsesive in the way that I pursue things, and that if I call him excessivly he will not return my calls. This was my first meeting with him and he acts like he knows me. Is it bad I will go to any lenghts to protect my daughter and get her out of the negitive living situation she is in? I will do this to my last dying breath.
Max Boling
i’m 65 years old one of my cousins took care of an aunt with alzheimers after 6 mos she died.It took her abouM?
wayfarer asked:
It took her about 6 more mos to call me and ask for my and my sisters address. Ishe said she was finally gettting arund to taking care of Aunts business. I told her I had other brothers and sisters and another Aunt had children. She said all she had to ut down was the people she knows. about 3 manths later she meets me on a Sunday at my sisters house and asks us to sign papers . She said Aunt Martha had everything at the lawyers office and we just needed to sign off . Both of us signed. I did not get a copy and wasn’t thinking about it at the time. I don’t know for sure what we signed. Called some of my family up they said to tell her to take our signatures off and to add their names. I called her she got upset with me told me I ruined everything and she jus as well kill herself. Would not listen when I told her it was the law that all names be put down. Kept accusing me so I finally said OK now you hurt my feelings and hung up. A few days later her sister called me. Told me her sister was mad at her because she would not sign the paper and would not let her see the paper. Asked me what I could remember on it . I said their was $40,000 CD plus house for $40,000 plus some other small amounts of like 300.00plus some othe small amounts. Can’t remember if their was a lawyer name on it..Called the court house probate court she has not filed for administrator yet. Could tha paper be legal
Adelaide Prock
It took her about 6 more mos to call me and ask for my and my sisters address. Ishe said she was finally gettting arund to taking care of Aunts business. I told her I had other brothers and sisters and another Aunt had children. She said all she had to ut down was the people she knows. about 3 manths later she meets me on a Sunday at my sisters house and asks us to sign papers . She said Aunt Martha had everything at the lawyers office and we just needed to sign off . Both of us signed. I did not get a copy and wasn’t thinking about it at the time. I don’t know for sure what we signed. Called some of my family up they said to tell her to take our signatures off and to add their names. I called her she got upset with me told me I ruined everything and she jus as well kill herself. Would not listen when I told her it was the law that all names be put down. Kept accusing me so I finally said OK now you hurt my feelings and hung up. A few days later her sister called me. Told me her sister was mad at her because she would not sign the paper and would not let her see the paper. Asked me what I could remember on it . I said their was $40,000 CD plus house for $40,000 plus some other small amounts of like 300.00plus some othe small amounts. Can’t remember if their was a lawyer name on it..Called the court house probate court she has not filed for administrator yet. Could tha paper be legal
Adelaide Prock
I’m seventeen. I can’t live here another year?
shadowsorry asked:
I’m 17 years old, completely miserable. I know most teenagers complain about wanting to leave where they live right? well… My situation is a bit different.. I’ve lived with my paternal grandmother eleven years and I have been depressed and sad since, constant fighting. I cry everyday I barely feel like I am alive anymore. I attempted ******* five times. I’m miserable.. my heart is so lonely. My boyfriend lives in Florida he came here and visited me and stayed with me at my real moms a week ago. ( I can’ stay with her shes poor) He asked me to come with him to FL and I was so close to going. But I figured to many problems would come of that choice.
Anyways my uncle would take custody of me but I know myself that could take years I’ll be 18 in a year… and I am so determined to not live in this horrid putrid house another year. I am to miserable for that. I’m trying to convince her to sign custody to someone… but as we know misery loves company so she needs me to feed into her **** I don’t know. I don’t think I deserve this.. life has always kind of ****** for me… I’m trying so hard right now so hard. I’m so afraid I wont make it. TERRIFIED. I’m not going to give up. But everyday seems to get harder for me. It could take years for my uncle and aunt to get custody… and I am not stupid enough to run away people could get into a **** load of trouble. I don’t see how the court would grant me emancipation I don’t have a job and I cannot support myself. My BF wants me to go down to FL to live with him and his mom. I’d finish school there and be so happy…my uncle suggests I go to the probate court to be granted permission to marry my BF.. then I would be emancipated. What can I do. Staying here is not an option… and to say **** IT UP tears me up… I feel pathetic I can’t be here one more year before I’m 18… for one year all I want is….happiness I feel so selfish.. help me?
Jasper Hauswald
I’m 17 years old, completely miserable. I know most teenagers complain about wanting to leave where they live right? well… My situation is a bit different.. I’ve lived with my paternal grandmother eleven years and I have been depressed and sad since, constant fighting. I cry everyday I barely feel like I am alive anymore. I attempted ******* five times. I’m miserable.. my heart is so lonely. My boyfriend lives in Florida he came here and visited me and stayed with me at my real moms a week ago. ( I can’ stay with her shes poor) He asked me to come with him to FL and I was so close to going. But I figured to many problems would come of that choice.
Anyways my uncle would take custody of me but I know myself that could take years I’ll be 18 in a year… and I am so determined to not live in this horrid putrid house another year. I am to miserable for that. I’m trying to convince her to sign custody to someone… but as we know misery loves company so she needs me to feed into her **** I don’t know. I don’t think I deserve this.. life has always kind of ****** for me… I’m trying so hard right now so hard. I’m so afraid I wont make it. TERRIFIED. I’m not going to give up. But everyday seems to get harder for me. It could take years for my uncle and aunt to get custody… and I am not stupid enough to run away people could get into a **** load of trouble. I don’t see how the court would grant me emancipation I don’t have a job and I cannot support myself. My BF wants me to go down to FL to live with him and his mom. I’d finish school there and be so happy…my uncle suggests I go to the probate court to be granted permission to marry my BF.. then I would be emancipated. What can I do. Staying here is not an option… and to say **** IT UP tears me up… I feel pathetic I can’t be here one more year before I’m 18… for one year all I want is….happiness I feel so selfish.. help me?
Jasper Hauswald
Why can’t I have pictures of my dad?
Thelma asked:
My dad dies two years ago and was married to a woman who hated me and my brother and sister. I also have a half sister from this marriage. Growing up my dad didn’t have contact with us for fourteen years. I treated my half sister as my own sibling because what my dad did was not her fault. I was barely let in he house when he was dying. His wife dragged him ti a lawyer on his deathbed. I wanted some copies of pictures from hisjob because I have no recent pictures but my stepmother would not allow me to have them. I sent her two letters asking with a postage paid envelope. I texted my half sister and asked her if I could come get the pictures to make copies and got a message back that read “come to my house n c wut happens to you” then two more reading F%^&*() leave me alone” Nice. My dad gave her everything, cars, education, even let her boyfriend live with them for a year rent free. She didn’t appreciate any of it. All I wanted was some pictures. They made a display of pictures of her with our dad growing up while he was extranged from us. I am ready to take his wife to probate court to spite her if I can’t have the pitcures. They humilited us by having their friends laugh stare and point at us during his memorial. The pictures were from his coworkers not theirs and I am his family too. I am consisering writing his wife a letter saying a court date is in her future if I can’t have pictures and that she will have to explain why she took a dyin man to a lawyers office and fired his hospice care the day before he died and then donated his body to science.
Aleksandra
My dad dies two years ago and was married to a woman who hated me and my brother and sister. I also have a half sister from this marriage. Growing up my dad didn’t have contact with us for fourteen years. I treated my half sister as my own sibling because what my dad did was not her fault. I was barely let in he house when he was dying. His wife dragged him ti a lawyer on his deathbed. I wanted some copies of pictures from hisjob because I have no recent pictures but my stepmother would not allow me to have them. I sent her two letters asking with a postage paid envelope. I texted my half sister and asked her if I could come get the pictures to make copies and got a message back that read “come to my house n c wut happens to you” then two more reading F%^&*() leave me alone” Nice. My dad gave her everything, cars, education, even let her boyfriend live with them for a year rent free. She didn’t appreciate any of it. All I wanted was some pictures. They made a display of pictures of her with our dad growing up while he was extranged from us. I am ready to take his wife to probate court to spite her if I can’t have the pitcures. They humilited us by having their friends laugh stare and point at us during his memorial. The pictures were from his coworkers not theirs and I am his family too. I am consisering writing his wife a letter saying a court date is in her future if I can’t have pictures and that she will have to explain why she took a dyin man to a lawyers office and fired his hospice care the day before he died and then donated his body to science.
Aleksandra
If a relative I live w/has guardianship of my child can I take her out of state for a few weeks alone?
XxBeautifullyBrokenxX asked:
I cant find my answer anywhere online, my grandmother has guardianship of my 2 yr old even though we live in the same house and I want to take her to FL for a few weeks to visit my mother do I have to notify the probate court? or am I even allowed to leave? I don’t know if the court has to be notified or if my grandmother’s permission is enough. I’m hoping someone was once in a similar position and knows this answer because she doesn’t want me to leave because she thinks I can’t and I need to get out of here for awhile.
That is true Kelly thanx yes I guess I shouldnt be either only thing is I live in the same house. How long did this last with ur grandson and what did his mother or father have to do or prove the court to get guardianship back? I appreciate all information anyone leaves about this cuz I’m having a hard time finding answers on this subject.
Derek
I cant find my answer anywhere online, my grandmother has guardianship of my 2 yr old even though we live in the same house and I want to take her to FL for a few weeks to visit my mother do I have to notify the probate court? or am I even allowed to leave? I don’t know if the court has to be notified or if my grandmother’s permission is enough. I’m hoping someone was once in a similar position and knows this answer because she doesn’t want me to leave because she thinks I can’t and I need to get out of here for awhile.
That is true Kelly thanx yes I guess I shouldnt be either only thing is I live in the same house. How long did this last with ur grandson and what did his mother or father have to do or prove the court to get guardianship back? I appreciate all information anyone leaves about this cuz I’m having a hard time finding answers on this subject.
Derek
Tell me what you think?
ldyhskpr asked:
Well, this starts with my family, I already asked a question like this, but not with same details. It first started when my father passed away & had no will, left a house that 4 heirs had to deal with, the house had been rented for 35-40 yrs to same tenant. One of my brothers throught the house should belong to him, so me & my other brother chose to get an attorney & setlle it all, as my other brother that thinks it is his house had been collecting the rent money from tenant. So we hire a lawyer, get the house in probate court, my brother wont sign the papers to sell the house, so the lawyer took him to court for his accounting on the rent money. Theres a hearing & the magistrate sets it for a trial. In the meantime I start working with my brother at his job(the one that wanted to hire a lawyer with me) & My lawyer sends me a fax on the 12th telling me there is going to be a trial on the 17th against my brother for rent monies. I ask my other brother for the day off as hes my boss.
he said no, I acnt give you the day off, I tell him although he cant go as hes mgr, I have to go, as I wasnt going to throw what we started away. He still said no, that is was personal **** & he couldnt give me the day off, I told him I was making it a call in day then. I reminded him on Monday that I wasnt going to be there, then I said Tuesday that you know I would be here if I coulld, but I am going to miss the next day. He said he was going to write me up, I told him, I didnt care, but Im still not coming in. I never called him as I told him the day before I wasnt going to be there so I never called, He never said anything to me the next day when I came back, but today (2nd day back)he said I was a no call no show. I told him i was not going to be there the day before. I walked out as its not been good there since I started working with him, He is new to management position. It was always bad environment, that was the reason I ended up walking out. Never again work with family!
Also I ended up testifying against my brother that thought he should have everything in court, so I needed to be there.
Yes, I believe thats true, thats why I decided to say hell with it & got outta there!
know aht you mean, we should have all been able to reach a decision about the house, but I think my brothers are only out for waht will benefit tehm & Im the one paying, I am out of job
Meagan Agnew
Well, this starts with my family, I already asked a question like this, but not with same details. It first started when my father passed away & had no will, left a house that 4 heirs had to deal with, the house had been rented for 35-40 yrs to same tenant. One of my brothers throught the house should belong to him, so me & my other brother chose to get an attorney & setlle it all, as my other brother that thinks it is his house had been collecting the rent money from tenant. So we hire a lawyer, get the house in probate court, my brother wont sign the papers to sell the house, so the lawyer took him to court for his accounting on the rent money. Theres a hearing & the magistrate sets it for a trial. In the meantime I start working with my brother at his job(the one that wanted to hire a lawyer with me) & My lawyer sends me a fax on the 12th telling me there is going to be a trial on the 17th against my brother for rent monies. I ask my other brother for the day off as hes my boss.
he said no, I acnt give you the day off, I tell him although he cant go as hes mgr, I have to go, as I wasnt going to throw what we started away. He still said no, that is was personal **** & he couldnt give me the day off, I told him I was making it a call in day then. I reminded him on Monday that I wasnt going to be there, then I said Tuesday that you know I would be here if I coulld, but I am going to miss the next day. He said he was going to write me up, I told him, I didnt care, but Im still not coming in. I never called him as I told him the day before I wasnt going to be there so I never called, He never said anything to me the next day when I came back, but today (2nd day back)he said I was a no call no show. I told him i was not going to be there the day before. I walked out as its not been good there since I started working with him, He is new to management position. It was always bad environment, that was the reason I ended up walking out. Never again work with family!
Also I ended up testifying against my brother that thought he should have everything in court, so I needed to be there.
Yes, I believe thats true, thats why I decided to say hell with it & got outta there!
know aht you mean, we should have all been able to reach a decision about the house, but I think my brothers are only out for waht will benefit tehm & Im the one paying, I am out of job
Meagan Agnew
My mom Just died and has no will, and things are getting complicated, Help?
dontuworryaboutit asked:
My mom never made a will even after me and my sibilings kept telling her its important because we have a handicap brother. You see, I have 3 sisters and 2 brothers and one of them has lived with my mom all their life. He is not mentally retarded but is slow a bit. My mom has always said he gets the house when she passes on because we all have families and our own homes and it would only be right for him to have the house. The house would actually be given to me but I would not live there, just let my brother live there and I would take care of him this way. But now after my mom has passed my sibilings have become very selfish and are fighting over the house like its gold. I have taken care of my brother all my life, even in school and my other sibilings didn’t want anything to do with him. Since there is no will, it will go to probate court and I think there is nothing we can do now. My brother will lose the house he has ever known and he is scared. Does anyone have any advice on this, or know of a solution that may help us. Thank You
I’m not looking for negativity! I already know my mom was wrong for not making a will! I’m asking for educated people who has experienced something like this or has some advice.
Kareem Mosqueda
My mom never made a will even after me and my sibilings kept telling her its important because we have a handicap brother. You see, I have 3 sisters and 2 brothers and one of them has lived with my mom all their life. He is not mentally retarded but is slow a bit. My mom has always said he gets the house when she passes on because we all have families and our own homes and it would only be right for him to have the house. The house would actually be given to me but I would not live there, just let my brother live there and I would take care of him this way. But now after my mom has passed my sibilings have become very selfish and are fighting over the house like its gold. I have taken care of my brother all my life, even in school and my other sibilings didn’t want anything to do with him. Since there is no will, it will go to probate court and I think there is nothing we can do now. My brother will lose the house he has ever known and he is scared. Does anyone have any advice on this, or know of a solution that may help us. Thank You
I’m not looking for negativity! I already know my mom was wrong for not making a will! I’m asking for educated people who has experienced something like this or has some advice.
Kareem Mosqueda
Does anyone know anything about a teenager seeking emancipation from her parents?
Jeanette asked:
My sis-in-law and her husband were just served with papers from their 16 year old daughter’s attorney and the probate court. Their daughter is seeking emancipation, approved by the court. We live in CT and I don’t know if there are different state laws or what. My sis-in-law is in shock. Her daughter’s lawyer called to get permission for their daughter to pick up her clothes. She doesn’t know where she’s staying at night nor where she’ll be living or working or anything. Such a sad situation. Oh and the girl’s high school guidance counselor helped her with this action and didn’t inform the parents.
Ramona Jenkins
My sis-in-law and her husband were just served with papers from their 16 year old daughter’s attorney and the probate court. Their daughter is seeking emancipation, approved by the court. We live in CT and I don’t know if there are different state laws or what. My sis-in-law is in shock. Her daughter’s lawyer called to get permission for their daughter to pick up her clothes. She doesn’t know where she’s staying at night nor where she’ll be living or working or anything. Such a sad situation. Oh and the girl’s high school guidance counselor helped her with this action and didn’t inform the parents.
Ramona Jenkins
Has anyone been through this? I’m trying to see my child! Please Help a Young Father do the right thing?
Gabriel asked:
Hey this questions is for the experienced Male Father Figure.
i Havent seen my son since me and my ex fought back in 2009. yeah she put the restraining order on me but believe me i am not the monster she makes me out to be. she just got the upper hand because i wasnt malicious enough to even do that. so she has my son. post’s pics on facebook, twitters, and all that, yet i havent even got to spend his first b-day with him, his teeth that he shows now, and just overall everything when he was a baby. he still is, but i missed out on something that i will never get back. oh yes i am furious…but what the heck is it going to solve???
Hey this questions is for the experienced Male Father Figure.
i Havent seen my son since me and my ex fought back in 2009. yeah she put the restraining order on me but believe me i am not the monster she makes me out to be. she just got the upper hand because i wasnt malicious enough to even do that. so she has my son. post’s pics on facebook, twitters, and all that, yet i havent even got to spend his first b-day with him, his teeth that he shows now, and just overall everything when he was a baby. he still is, but i missed out on something that i will never get back. oh yes i am furious…but what the heck is it going to solve???
I have went to anger management, Couples Relationship Groups, and parenting class’s. i paid all the damages that i have caused. yet she holds my son like a candy and taunts me with the fact i wont be able to be his father… i went to probate court, filed a complaint for visitations and ive been waiting ever since,,,, now the court date is coming up on the 29th and i have some paper trail to show what i have been doing for the past year, but i want to know what to expect when i go in the court room…or even how to carry myself…because i know that its going to really get under my skin since i had to wait this long.
Alfonzo Cutliff